As a mother and psychologist, Fatima found herself on a deep journey of self-discovery when her son was diagnosed with mild autism. Initially, the news felt like a pause button on life, leaving her struggling with a wave of emotions and societal misunderstandings about autism.
Facing the Misunderstandings
In those early days, well-meaning voices urged Fatima to hide her son’s condition as if it were a shameful secret. The typical attitude treated autism like a contagious illness, something to be hidden and cured. It was a painful realisation that the path ahead would be an uphill battle against misconceptions deeply rooted in her community.
Embracing Neurodiversity
However, as time passed, Fatima realised that her son’s autism was not a burden to be carried but an integral part of his identity – a unique aspect woven into the fabric of his being. Gradually, she accepted this truth, and a sense of pride grew within her. She is the mother of an autistic child, and she wears this identity with honour.
A Transformative Journey
Raising a child with special needs in a society that often misunderstands neurodiversity is a significant challenge. Still, it was a transformative journey that deepened Fatima’s faith and enriched her perspective on life. Her resilience has grown stronger with each obstacle they have faced, and her commitment to advocacy has intensified.
True Essence of Awareness
During Autism Awareness Month, Fatima reflects on the true essence of awareness – acceptance. Before seeking treatments, therapies, or specialised schools, we must embrace these extraordinary individuals as valued members of our society. As a psychologist, she has witnessed firsthand the mistaken belief that autism is a temporary phase or a condition that can be “cured” through alternative remedies. However, the truth is that autism is a lifelong neurological condition, and the focus should be on empowering and supporting these individuals, not attempting to “fix” them.
Letting Go of Outdated Beliefs
Fatima urges her fellow parents and members of society to let go of the outdated belief that autism is a source of shame or a burden. It is a unique way of experiencing the world, and by embracing neurodiversity, we can create a more inclusive and compassionate environment for all.
A Reassuring Message
To those on the autism spectrum and their families, Fatima reassures them that they are not alone. Their journey is one of resilience, strength, and unwavering love. Together, we can break down barriers, challenge stereotypes, and pave the way for a future where everyone is celebrated for their authentic selves.
Experiencing the Full Story of Autism
This blog is based on Fatima’s powerful narrative shared in a video about her experiences raising an autistic child. For a more in-depth understanding of her perspective on autism, readers are encouraged to watch the full video, where Fatima eloquently expresses the joys, challenges, and life-altering realizations that have shaped her advocacy journey.