Having children is one of the greatest blessings from Allah, but the inability to conceive can also cause deep anguish and distress. This thought-provoking video provides invaluable wisdom on the Islamic viewpoints surrounding this sensitive topic.
The speaker reminds us that whether we are blessed with children or not is ultimately a decree from Allah that we must accept contentedly. For Muslims, both having kids and remaining childless serve as tests of faith to see how we respond to Allah’s will.
One common question addressed is whether family planning methods are permissible in Islam. The video clarifies that Islam allows family planning, but the intentions behind it are critically important. Each couple’s situation is unique, so family planning decisions cannot be generalized across all households.
Practicing Family Planning
If the reasons for practicing family planning, such as medical concerns or life risks to the mother or child, align with Islamic principles (Shariah), then it is permissible. However, merely disliking children is not an acceptable justification.
On the weighty matter of abortion, the video stresses that it requires strong, valid reasons beyond simply finding it difficult to raise multiple children. Without such justifications, abortion constitutes unlawful killing of life.
For couples struggling with infertility, the option of pursuing lawful medical treatments is discussed, though the choice ultimately lies with the couple. However, treatments violating Shariah principles should be avoided. Interestingly, if a couple accepts Allah’s decree and does not seek treatment, they should not be accused of subscribing to superstitions.
Finally, the video addresses whether determining the gender of an unborn child is allowed in Islam. It clarifies that while the Quran states the gender is unknown at conception, using scientific means to determine it after conception is a personal choice for couples, as long as lawful methods are used.
With so many profound insights into this complicated topic, I’d highly encourage watching the full video to gain a deeper understanding of Islamic perspectives on family planning. The wise reminders and nuanced guidance can greatly benefit anyone seeking clarity on this issue.


